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Health and Sanity

Rashmi Vasudeva
Features writer on health, lifestyle and the Arts, digital marketing blogger, mother
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Wednesday, 22 March 2017

Think You Are 'Different' On Social Media? You Might Be Kidding Yourself

This is a question I have also asked myself: Why am I often a warm mother on Facebook and a serious journalist on Twitter? I use Instagram like a teenager – to drool all over my favourite celebrities – but I would not dare do that on Facebook. A simple Google search will spew out several consolations to allay any apprehensions I might have of being a case for Multiple Personality Disorder. I am told in a language that seems to pat me gently, that we are all "different" on social media and each media has its own culture, which we tend to appropriate, even if we are exhibitionists, rude louts and interfering jerks more often than not. Several studies are shoved in my face to prove this point. Don't worry, they all seem to say, you are finer and kinder in real life.

Chiefly, a lot of twaddle.

It is time, as Derek Thompson, the author of this snarky, acidic piece of writing says, to stop being ostriches about our social media personas. What you are on social media is not an artificial construct: it is as real as your real self. The author argues (and effectively, I might add) that the internet is not creating new personalities, but simply allowing people to express facets of their persona that are normally discouraged in the real world. He calls the internet the "kingdom of self-regard". How apt. This article on bbc.com bolsters his argument about how our online activities are an "exercise in reputation management".

Thompson quotes recent studies that confirm his theory – no matter what we say to ourselves, we care a great deal about being watched. Our behaviour and choices change because of an audience, often without us being aware of it. 

But, but. We may be "performing" on social media, but that does not necessarily make it false. As Thompson says, the internet is simply able to reveal the “upper and lower bounds of our capacity for empathy and cruelty, anxiety and confidence”. Makes one wonder if our identity indeed lies with our audience, as this author believes.

Think You Are 'Different' On Social Media? You Might Be Kidding Yourself
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