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Malia Politzer
Editor of piqd.com. International Investigative Journalist
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Tuesday, 26 December 2017

The Newlyweds: The Risks Some Indian Couples Take When They Marry For Love

Journalist Mansi Choksi's Harpers article reads like a Greek tragedy: Two young lovers, Nitu and Darwinder, neighbors from a remote village in Haryana, fall in love and want to get married.  However, due to issues of caste and their village's tradition, a "love marriage" is forbidden to them.

So the young couple runs away from their village, and stays in a shelter in New Delhi run by a group called the "Love Commandos", which helps to register the marriages of young couples forced to flee the disapproval of their families, and elope – at a substantial price.  While there, they are required to clean, cook, and walk the "bomb sniffing" dog to earn their keep (though they'd already paid a substantial sum for the services.) Months later, sans marriage license, they get frustrated and find another way – this time with their parents' blessing – to get married.  

Sadly, Nitu and Darwinder's story does not have a happy ending: The social disapproval of their elopement is so harsh it becomes violent; Darwinder's mother is beaten to death by a mob of villagers as penalty for her son's choice.  Darwinder's family blames her death on Nitu, who they believe is the "root of the problem".  Darwinder is so wrecked with guilt, he becomes cold to his new wife.

Choke's article does a beautiful job of highlighting all the challenges facing some Indian couples in certain parts of the country who want to marry for love – from the social norms that are so rigid that violating them can mean death, to the entrepreneurs eager to financially exploit a couples' desperation.  "The Newlyweds" is a beautiful, if tragic read – and one well worth the time.  

The Newlyweds: The Risks Some Indian Couples Take When They Marry For Love
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