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Health and Sanity

Danielle Batist
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Monday, 02 October 2017

Thoughts From Someone Close To Death

“I have heard it said that modern dying means dying more, dying over longer periods, enduring more uncertainty, subjecting ourselves and our families to more disappointments and despair. As we are enabled to live longer, we are also condemned to die longer.”

When I read extracts from Australian author Cory Taylor’s book ‘Dying: A Memoir’, I had goose bumps. Perhaps her words struck me more because it sounded like she was very much alive, even though she knew at the time of writing she didn’t have long to live.

She answered the questions people asked her, which in itself were intriguing and in some ways confrontational. Did she have a bucket list? Had she considered suicide? Had she become religious? Was she scared? Did she have any regrets? Had she changed her priorities in life? Had she taken more risks given that she was dying anyway? What would she miss the most? How would she like to be remembered?

Her voice was powerful in each one of her answers.

“The problem with reverie is that you always assume you know how the unlived life turns out. And it is always a better version of the life you’ve actually lived. The other life is more significant and more purposeful. It is impossibly free of setbacks and mishaps. This split between the dream and the reality can be the cause of intense dissatisfaction at times. But I am no longer plagued by restlessness.”

Cory Taylor died from melanoma-related brain cancer on July 5, 2016.

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